It is not love but relationship that lasts

  If somebody tells you,"I'll love you forever," will you believe it?
  I don't think there's any reason not to.We are ready to believe such commitment at the moment,whatever change may happen afterwards.As for the belief in an everlasting love,that's another thing.
  Then you may unswervingly love or be loved by a person.But love will change its composition with the passage of time.It will not remain the same.In the course of your growth and as a result of your increased experience,love will become something different to you.
  In the beginning you believed a ferent love for a person could last indefinitely.By and by,however,"fervent" gave way to "prosaic" . Precisely because of this change it became possible for love to last. Then what was meant by an everlasting love.would eventually end up in a sort of interdependence.
  We used to insist on the difference between love and liking.The former seemed much more beautiful than the latter.One day,however,it turns out there's really no need to make such difference.Liking is actually a sort of love.By the same token,the everlasting interdependence is actually an everlasting love.
  I wish I could believe there was somebody who would love me for ever.That's ,as we all know,too romantic to be true.Instead,it will more often than not be a case of lasting relationship. --------------------   Optimistic is my color
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有谁愿意把楼上的东西，翻译一下，我眼睛花了，看不过来。谢先了;););)

i think i will have a try after i got home.;)

如果有人告诉你"我将永远爱你",你会相信吗?
那是无庸质疑的.
无论将来会有什么变化,
我们早已准备好去相信那一刻的承诺.
就象是存在于永恒的爱中的信念一样(that's another thing?----不明白）
那么你会始终不渝去爱或是被爱，
然而，爱的成分会随着时间的流逝而改变，
它将和以前不同。
在你成长的历程中，随着你经验的不断增长，
对你来说，爱的意义将会变得不同。
起初一份炙热的爱是一种不确定，
然而，随着时间的流逝，炙热变得平凡，
正是因为这种变化才使得爱有持续的可能。
那么永恒的爱又意味着什么？
是在某种互相依靠中死去？
我们一直坚持“爱”和“喜欢”的含义是不同的，
前者似乎比后者更美丽。
然而某一天我们才发现实际上是没有必要去区分他们的。
喜欢实际上是一种爱，
同样，永久的相互依赖事实上也是一种永恒的爱，
我希望我会相信有人会永远爱我（---不明白）
就象我们知道的那样，
它太浪漫而难以成真。
相反，
it will more often not be a case of lasting relationship.
(我不知道)

:)

a want to know if it came a little later?!
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i don''t know much,but i''d like to learn more. [ 2001-9-5 9:09:38 佩佩 修改 ]

想不到翻译过来会这么好。As for the belief in an everlasting love,that's another thing.是说：前面提到“我们容易相信那一刻的承诺”（be ready to 翻译成“容易”好些（我想的），毕竟readily = easily.但是当论到是否相信有everlasting love的时候，那就另当别论了（另外一码事了），也就是说可能就不相信了。it will be a case of lasting relationship.more often than not 只是插入，现在应该看的清楚点了。
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thank you for praising.
thanks for your advice.
:) -------------------- i don''t know much,but i''d like to learn more.