Depend on yourself[讨论]

with growing up,I find that we should depend on yourself not on others. in lunch time,we are talking about the renting a house.It is very popular with renting house for us who are vagabondizing in Beijing.but for further  considering ,buying a house is better  than renting a house. one said,I will be waiting for my husband,and he will buy the house.the other said,nowadays,it is not a good idea to invest a man.After hearing this words I has a strong feeling.Yes,the fool thing is for woman is to put her youth to a man.We should not trust anyone except ourself.and only your parents do kind to you.of course ,I don't exclude your friends.but once facing benefit problem ,your friend may be betray you.so invest person ,is not a fool way,and we should invest ourselves.don't want to depend on others ,nobody can be depended,even your parents.

it seems that you have been hurt by your friend or your boyfriend .well i always say to myself that no one can hurt me for i can protect myself .how do i do it ?very easy ,something must be done by yourself .  however i would like to say there is really friendship in this world.just like me and my friend wangqiang.you may sayone day he maybe do something i disike even hurt me .ok let itcome,i can not  finish it this time .next time see you

I really think there is a real friendship in the world ,But the question is how to deal with the friendship.of course we have to help each other when our friends need,but I don't like to lose myself when I do sth.the meanning I want to explain is as a woman we must depend on ourselves,not on others ,espacially man.we have to make ourselves better ,the happiness will come to you.

in my opinion, what is being discussed here is indepence.
it does make one happy and confident, whatever gender you are. -------------------- ~不说了~

of course no matter who ,happy is more important.

Don't know whether you understand the real meaning of happiness,
You should know that happiness is given by yourself,
other people are important,
but for yourself you are more important....

hey, baby, be happpy!

Remember you have your friends that can give hands to you when you are in need. -------------------- I need the yellow brick road to the Wizard of Oz.